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DIFFERENT CATEGORIES OF WIVES

Whatever i write here is not to judge or disrespect anyone as no one is perfect, In fact, we might notice that one way or the other, everyone of us has one or more of the traits described on some of the categories listed here. Look at this topic from the lighter side of life and let roll. The truth is that people are different, and understanding our personalities and that of others will help …

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SEXUAL TURN-OFF FOR WOMEN

It is obvious from previous episodes of this show that so many couples are battling with sexual issues in their marriages. Usually, the general belief is that, the men are the one that is always enjoying sex, why the women are the ones at the loosing end, but my experience on this show these few days has proved otherwise. Someone even called in that he usually force his wife whenever they want to make love, …

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MASTURBATION UNVEILED

Someone wrote this on Goodtherapy.com: Hi. I’m not sure how to say this so I’ll just say it. I masturbate at least twice a day. Whenever I finish, I feel a profound sense of shame about it and I feel terrible for like an hour. Sometimes the shame even ruins my day. Everything I’ve read says masturbation is normal for guys, yet I can’t get past these feelings of shame and self-hatred. I feel like …

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THE URGENT NEED FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING/THERAPY IN NIGERIA

THE URGENT NEED FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING/THERAPY IN NIGERIA I recently counseled a young couple, they were separated and decided to come for counseling after the guy attempted suicide. The wife left with their two kids and the man became lonely and miserable. It took the intervention of neighbors and friends to rescue him, this is not moonlight story but reality. I’m sure the typical African man reading this will say, “ Is he alright ‘women …

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THE POWER OF TOUCH

THE POWER OF TOUCH Do you know the largest organ in the human body? Hazard a guess. What is the largest human organ? I could almost bet the majority of you will be wrong. The largest human organ is the skin. In a grown man, it covers about 19 square feet and weighs over 3.5kg. A piece of skin the size of a small coin contains more than 3 million cells, 100 to 340 sweat glands, 50 nerve …

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WOMB-MAN

“Don’t open the door for me, i can do it myself , I’m not weak or arm less” What an irony, we want to be treated like a queen but dont want to be called a lady. BROKENNESS…I had no deep knowledge of this word until very, very recently, you would be surprised how much knowledge you can unveil in a word if and when you think deeply enough about it. The dictionary defines ‘broken’ …

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THE BEST PLACE TO GET A GOOD WIFE IS IN A MATCHMAKER’S OFFICE.

  You might disagreed with me when I talked about chasing a good woman instead of chasing money, but have you ever considered the life of a rich man with a bad wife? Is there any peace of mind or stable life for a man who is married to a troublesome woman? Your marriage is your life. To some extent, getting it wrong/right determines how the journey of your life will end. In my years …

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CHASE A REAL WOMAN INSTEAD OF CHASING MONEY

“There are more women than men” a very common statement among young men these days, some will even go as far as quoting Isaiah 4:1, but i can categorically tell you that, the number of men of marriageable age are currently more than those of women, even here in Nigeria. The reason why men seems to be more than men is because of the economic situation, the men who are due for marriage are not …

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SEXUAL FETISH

SEXUAL FETISH I remember speaking with a client whose husband forbade her from shaving her pubic hair, the man gets turned on by weaving and loosening her private hair before making love to her, sound strange right? I’m sure not so many people have heard about sexual fetish in the developing worlds, but its a common occurrence in the developed world and more awareness are being created on the subject even in the third world. …

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PAINS DURING SEX

My partner use to to feel pain during sex. Please help me, what could be the cause and what can we do to stop it? ATTN. READERS: This blog is to give readers the opportunity to share their thought and experiences with the poster. Dr. Tolu is a professional relationship/marriage counselor and trained sex therapist, you can inbox her your question for public opinion on: info@intimatesolutionnetwork.com (IDENTITY WILL NOT BE DISCLOSED) or schedule a private …

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