lovemaking

THE ORDER OF LOVEMAKING

A lot of couples are in a sexually frustrating marriage because they put the wrong thing first. There are orders in which things must be done when it comes to the act of love making. Follow these five orders of lovemaking and find out why your sex life is becoming frustrating. Attraction: A lot of people will never be able to enjoy the act of love making if they are not attracted to their partner. …

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FACTS ABOUT ORGASM AND FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION

Circumcision is a very sensitive topic because a lot of women lives has been turned upside down because of the negative consequences of being circumcised. A lot of debates have been going on and articles have been written over the years on the subject of circumcision, this article will highlight major facts that could clear the airs on some of the myths, misconceptions and certain facts about circumcision. As much as I’m going to talk …

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SEXUAL TURN OFF FOR MEN

INTRODUCTION It is obvious from previous episodes of  my show that a lot of couples are battling with sexual issues in their marriages. Usually, the general belief is that, the men are the one that is always enjoying sex, why the women are the ones at the loosing end, but my experience on this show these few days has proved otherwise. Even though its a common saying that men love sex and and most time …

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21 AMAZING FACTS ABOUT SEX

Even though we don’t like talking about the subject of sex in this part of the world, it is a very crucial aspect of marriage that cannot be over emphasized. Research shows that the opposite of the intensity of labor pain is the intensity of sexual pleasure, meaning as labor pain is believed to be the highest level of pain, so is sex is believed to be the highest level of pleasure. Just like i …

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MASTURBATION UNVEILED

Someone wrote this on Goodtherapy.com: Hi. I’m not sure how to say this so I’ll just say it. I masturbate at least twice a day. Whenever I finish, I feel a profound sense of shame about it and I feel terrible for like an hour. Sometimes the shame even ruins my day. Everything I’ve read says masturbation is normal for guys, yet I can’t get past these feelings of shame and self-hatred. I feel like …

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THE MAN WITH TWO PENISES MEETS WITH THE WOMAN WITH A DOUBLE VAGINA

DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH TWO PENISES AND VAGINAS? WILL YOU LIKE TO SHARE WITH US IF YOU HAVE SEEN OR KNOW ANYONE LIKE THAT? READ ON: The Man With Two Penises Meets The Woman With A ‘Double-Vagina’ Penises. Every man’s got one, but it’s not everyday you meet someone hiding TWO sexual organs tucked between their legs. Juan Baptista dos Santos, born in 1843 in Portugal, was one such rare specimen. The …

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THE URGENT NEED FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING/THERAPY IN NIGERIA

THE URGENT NEED FOR PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING/THERAPY IN NIGERIA I recently counseled a young couple, they were separated and decided to come for counseling after the guy attempted suicide. The wife left with their two kids and the man became lonely and miserable. It took the intervention of neighbors and friends to rescue him, this is not moonlight story but reality. I’m sure the typical African man reading this will say, “ Is he alright ‘women …

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LET HER BE THE WOMAN

As unedifying as it sounds, i have to say this so we can understand the magnitude of the problem facing religious leader’s marriages… I have counseled G.O who is addicted to masturbation because mama didn’t show interest for 30 months, yes, you heard me, 30 months. I’ve been able to speak in churches where minister’s wife threatened to work out of her marriage as a result of poor sex life, and another cheating with her …

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SEXUAL FETISH

SEXUAL FETISH I remember speaking with a client whose husband forbade her from shaving her pubic hair, the man gets turned on by weaving and loosening her private hair before making love to her, sound strange right? I’m sure not so many people have heard about sexual fetish in the developing worlds, but its a common occurrence in the developed world and more awareness are being created on the subject even in the third world. …

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PAINS DURING SEX

My partner use to to feel pain during sex. Please help me, what could be the cause and what can we do to stop it? ATTN. READERS: This blog is to give readers the opportunity to share their thought and experiences with the poster. Dr. Tolu is a professional relationship/marriage counselor and trained sex therapist, you can inbox her your question for public opinion on: info@intimatesolutionnetwork.com (IDENTITY WILL NOT BE DISCLOSED) or schedule a private …

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