How to make him propose:- In my years of practice as a marriage counselor, I have come to realized that one of the major questions in the head of every single lady is the question “will he marry me?”the number of e-mails and text messages I get on this topic is alarming, and the most surprising ones are the ones coming from teenagers, mostly between fifteen and eighteen, they are always worried about the level of commitment of the men they are with, i get a lot of messages like this from them, Dr. Tolu, please how do I know if my boyfriend loves me? That is one kind of text message that is readily constant on my phone. It is not in my place to crucify these teenagers, at least most of us can identify with such feelings at that age, what they need is proper counseling and guidance. But that is an article for another day; this particular one is about those whom I considered adult, already in a relationship and ready to settle down but are confused about whether the men are in the same pace with them. There’s something in every woman that makes her crave for love, it is not weakness but should rather be seeing as part of the feminine beautiful nature, this explain my first paragraphs about teenager’s first reaction to love, there’s the fantasy about being the wife of this charming boy, even when they are still in high school.
Possible reasons why you are still single against your wish:- Tongues has started wailing, people are already looking at you whenever you are passing, your parents are on your case and it look as if singleness is now sickness. You don’t seems to be happy anymore and it’s as if every other good thing in your life does not count, all you need to be fulfilled is settle down and get a man. You look at yourself in the mirror and spot a small fine line under your eyes, “now I’m having wrinkles” you said to yourself, it’s as if your world has stopped moving all because you want to change your status from single to married, no thanks to the society we live in. You don’t even care at this point, any man will do for you, you just want to be address with the prefix MRS and that’s all that matters. As a professional counselor and matchmaker, I understand your feelings, and I can imagine what you are going through, but experience has thought me that most time, you are the reason why you are still single, maybe, just maybe there are things you are not doing right, check out these few points, I think it might help you find your feet.
Power of proper communication in relationship and marriage:- Communication is gotten from the Latin word, commūnicāre, meaning “to share” It is a purposeful activity of exchanging information and meaning across space and time via various technical or natural means, whichever is available or preferred. Underline the word information and meaning, this means you must be saying something, you must be making sense and the receiver should be able to understand what you are saying. Communication requires a sender, a message, a medium and a recipient (receiver). Communication can occurs unexpectedly, but there must be a common communicative area and communication process is never complete until the receiver understands the sender’s message. One of the major pillars that keeps relationship and marriage together is communication, not just communication but understanding how to do it, at the right time and in the right place. Research shows that communication problem is the most common cause of divorce in marriages, it took a whopping 65%, and in fact most of other relationship and marital issues like lack of trust, financial in pastry
Solving the puzzle of orgasm:- I know there are lots of questions going on in so many peoples’ head about the term orgasm especially in this part of the world, some has never heard of it, some heard and doesn’t really understand what it means and so many has never experienced it. In fact some argued that women are not meant to enjoy sex, someone posted during a debate on my Facebook page that our grandmothers never experienced orgasm and they only made love to make their husband happy, he also believed that the desire to be sexually satisfied is the reason why women are misbehaving these days, he cannot be farther from the truth but that is Africa mentality for you. Even though sexual relationship with one’s spouse should not be orgasm based, but one can only achieve true level of physical and emotional sexual satisfaction through the experience called orgasm.