WHAT DO YOU WANT?
201705.31
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WHAT DO YOU WANT?

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So many people have a very long list about what their ideal man should look like and I am not an exception. Before I met my Ideal man, i already had it clear in my mind that I wanted the ‘PERFECT’ man and at the same time, he was going to be the first and…

MARRIAGE IS HARD
201705.18
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MARRIAGE IS HARD

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Recently, my parents celebrated their 40th anniversary. As we were celebrating, I leaned over and asked my father what he felt about being married for 40 years. He looked at me and said, “It’s pretty depressing knowing that you have been married longer than you have been single!” He smiled, laughed and then quoted, “Never…

MERCY AIGBE WAS JUST WRONG
201705.17
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MERCY AIGBE WAS JUST WRONG

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This is just pitiful and sad. The things that individuals endure in order to keep the society happy is beyond our imagination. I sincerely believe that if things go this way, the institution of marriage will be totally destroyed. Mercy Aigbe states categorically that she stayed in an abusive relationship because SHE WANTS TO STAY…

MAIDEN NAME vs MARRIED NAME
201705.17
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MAIDEN NAME vs MARRIED NAME

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Ever heard of a woman vs. wife vs. mom identity crisis? I curse these maiden name vs. married name dilemmas. Who am I? At this point in my life, I do feel like I know who I am. But, ask me to put it on paper and, well, I start feeling weird. Disrespectful. Wrong too….

63 YEAR OLD WOMAN PUTS TO BED.
201705.16
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63 YEAR OLD WOMAN PUTS TO BED.

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The 63-year old woman, Margaret Davou, is said to be the oldest African woman to conceive and give birth through IVF. Margaret shares her story with Vanguard, she says ; I have been married for 38 years without a child but at 63 years, having looked for this baby for many years, God decided to…

Take a CHILL PILL.
201705.16
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Take a CHILL PILL.

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At a certain age, you stop dating for fun and start dating with marriage in mind. Well, that’s the way it should be for anyone that’s not just looking to get laid and move on. I’ve been single for most of my life because of this. Sure, I’ve had some “semi-serious” relationships in my past. The…

3 Things to learn from Married Friends
201705.16
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3 Things to learn from Married Friends

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It saddens me when I hear time and time again of single people who have disconnected with friends because their friend had gotten married. Some say they feel their friend who is now married, doesn’t have the time of day for them and they have somehow drifted apart. Some single people choose only to socialize…

INFO FOR SINGLES….
201705.11
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INFO FOR SINGLES….

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There are so many things I wish I would have known as a single woman; so many things I wish someone could have told me. When it came to relationships with guys, there are so many things I didn’t know. I often struggled with understanding my value and my worth, and my identity was far…

MARRIED AND MANAGING
201705.10
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MARRIED AND MANAGING

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I remember growing up with the girls in secondary school then, of course we had big dreams and aspirations. Our hopes were high and nothing could bring us down from fantasy land even if it tried really hard. The human mind is geared towards optimism and positivism at that age, nothing could go wrong with…

THE YOU,YOU DONT KNOW.
201705.10
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THE YOU,YOU DONT KNOW.

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Many times, I subliminally dig into people’s subconscious mind through quality questioning and they tell me their life stories without being asked. When I hear these stories, I understand the root of many things they do and may not know why they do them. I go on to lead them from their subconscious to their…

Traits of a Healthy Single.
201705.09
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Traits of a Healthy Single.

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The world is rampant with relationships that start off hot and heavy only to crash and burn over time. Good-looking guy attracts good-looking girl, they get butterflies, and both are certain that their chemistry is a sign they’re in love.  Unfortunately the “love” fizzles out along with their emotions and they find themselves on the…